Reactive Abuse

Reactive abuse is a strategy that toxic individuals use to shift blame for their abusive behavior onto their victim. They do this by using your reaction to their abuse against you, then plays the victim. This is one of the most common manipulation tactics a narcissist uses to accuse you of being the abuser. This … Continue reading Reactive Abuse

10 Signs You Are A Victim Of Gaslighting

What is gaslighting? Gaslighting is when an toxic individual tries to manipulate their victim to make them question their own memory & doubt the events that occurred. The abuser may use contradictions, misdirection & lying to try to change the way a person remembers an event or incident. They do this to avoid taking responsibility … Continue reading 10 Signs You Are A Victim Of Gaslighting

10 Signs Of a Covert Narcissistic Parent

    Spotting a covert narcissistic parent is a lot harder then a blunt overt narcissist. Everything a covert narcissist does is hidden. This can make you feel confused. These types of parents make themselves look like a saint to the outside world. They want outsiders to believe that they are the perfect parent, with … Continue reading 10 Signs Of a Covert Narcissistic Parent

Lasting Effects Of The Scapegoat In A Narcissistic Family

Being the Scapegoat in a Narcissistic family is a brutal way to grow up. You are always blamed for everything that goes wrong in the house. You will always be the fall guy. What makes it worse, is that you will more than likely have no one in your corner. If you are dealing with … Continue reading Lasting Effects Of The Scapegoat In A Narcissistic Family